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Intentional feedback is important to improve what we do in an organization. And feedback comes in all kinds of forms. For example, if we ride a bike, we need to check on our data frequently enough to be able to steer successfully. We can’t just look at the map as we get started and then ride our bike with our eyes closed!

The counterpart of how we steer our bike in an organization are our policies, operations and our interactions as humans.

This article describes ways to be more intentional about feedback in our organizations.

Intentional feedback inside circles

How can we improve over time what we do? One solution is to have a discipline of reviewing policies.

Every policy decision in sociocracy has a term end when the policy will be up for review. It is like a regular check-up of our tools. All in order, all working and doing what we intend them to do?

Term ends remind us to do that check-up. For instance, we could make a new policy and consent to reviewing it again in 3 months. Or in 10 years. How long of a review term you set depends. In general, we try to make the cycles long enough to not overload our circle meetings with policy reviews. Sociocracy is about getting work done, not only about talking about work! If you are a bike shop, you want to fix or assemble bikes. You might want to talk about tool maintenance and make policy around that but you also want to get your actual work done. 

A group of people sharing feedback.

On the other hand, we want to be sure to keep our policies current. If we only review our policies every 10 years (or never!), we will most likely not keep them current. How many organizations have policies in their logbook that they are not even aware of? We don’t have a policy just so it is written down somewhere. We make policies to support us in doing our work. Therefore, every policy has to reflect the current state of how things are being done. Otherwise the organization becomes stiff and ineffective in the long run. Of course, if we review a policy and all is fine, then we do not have to make it a big deal. Putting a term end on policy is just a reminder to review policies. If no one sees the need for changing a policy, then reviewing a policy can be a matter of under 10 minutes.

How do we review policy? We follow the protocol for any consent process. First, we read the policy thoroughly. If the policy is complex and/or detailed and there are many new people in the circle, you can ask for clarifying questions next. Then call a round of reactions. If the effectiveness of the policy has been surveyed or measured in any way, bring in that information now.

If everyone thinks the policy reflects what is being done currently, and there are no reasons to do things otherwise, then give it a new term end and ask for consent. If there are reasons to change policy, then we are going into the standard process of dealing with objections. 

Feedback in the form of objections

In sociocracy, any decision on policy requires the circle’s consent. Consent is defined as “no one has an objection”. An objection is defined as a concern that carrying out a policy might harm the circle’s aim. The circle’s aim is a description of the doing of their work. That means that an objection is a concern that carrying out a policy might interfere with the work of the circle. Having clarity both about the circle’s aim and about the concern makes it easier to find out how to address the objection because it points towards a direction: what issue exactly are we trying to fix? Here are a few examples:

  • “I am concerned that if we form another sub-circle, we might be stretched too thin. I am worried that we won’t be able to do our work well when our plate is so full.”
  • “I object to this proposal because it lacks information about how we will be able to get prepared on time. I want to make sure I have peace of mind that we’ll be able to complete the project on time.”
  • “My objection to this proposal is that if we require bike helmets on scooters in addition to bikes, then no one will take it seriously which will undermine the purpose of this policy. So I have a concern about the practicability and ultimately about safety.”
  • “I object because I see no sense in adding a bureaucratic layer. The advantage of this step does not justify the extra work for everyone which will slow our real work down.”

The aim of the circle – doing the work – is a need of the workers, just like their more universal need of harmony, effectiveness, belonging, stimulation and so many others. In that way, expressing intentional feedback in form of objections can be addressed in the same ways as feedback to content. (Read more about integrating objections.)

Feedback loops vs. decision-making

As a sociocratic organization, we want to learn as much as we can and work with all the data we can access to feed into our decision-making. It is crucial to understand the difference between “hearing everyone’s feedback” and “including everyone in the decision-making”. Sociocracy clearly says yes to getting as much intentional feedback as your circle can handle and involving people in decisions that way, while we are clearly against involving everyone in the decision-making process as decision-makers.

What’s the difference? If circle A makes a decision about significantly raising the membership fees, they might want to hear people from outside the circle about that. They might even want to survey their entire membership. However, that only means that circle A now has more information. They are not bound to anything but to inviting and taking in the feedback they get. In an organization that is new to sociocracy, you have to be very clear on the difference between “being involved in the decision making” and “being heard”. The strength of sociocracy comes with the ability to make decisions effectively in small groups while including intentional feedback from outside of the circle.

Who do we get intentional feedback from? Sociocracy comes with its own support system to get feedback from. The support system is built into the circle structure.

If a circle is making an easy decision, they will probably just make a decision.

If they would like to get more feedback for a more complicated decision – either because they would like to hear more opinions, test the waters, or get more expertise, there are several options.

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  • They can ask their next-higher circle for input. That circle might have a broader understanding of the issue and know more about the impact on other circles, for instance circle A’s sibling circles.
  • The next-lower circle might have some insights about some specific parts of the proposal, that might be in their domain.
  • They could get intentional feedback from (parts of) the whole organization, for instance in a survey or all-member meeting.
  • They could ask specific individuals for input, if those have some expertise or if a policy would affect them specifically.
  • Circle A could also form a helping circle to look more deeply into a topic.

A circle will need to do whatever they need to gather enough input to make a good decision.

If you make a decision, and the reaction to your policy is surprise or outrage – then that shows that you did not get enough input before making the decision or in explaining how you got to your decision.

The small group mandate is based on trust – an organization trusts a small group of people to make decisions in their domain for everyone. This trust is earned through decisions that take input and intentional feedback from other people in the organization into deep consideration.

Intentional feedback to people

How we work together, in meetings and outside of meetings, forms a huge part of organizational life. Therefore, intentional feedback to people is key, and that might be coworkers, supervisors, but also clients, donors or investors.

Feedback can be given in any interaction between people. It can be given in person, in writing or in a phone call. Feedback can be given to anyone. Everyone’s needs matter – but that doesn’t mean that everyone always gets their way but everyone’s needs need to be considered.

The guiding principles for giving feedback are always the same: build a relationship on trust and connection, express your thoughts while owning that your truth will be different from their truth, then check in on how your feedback was perceived. 

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People encountering Nonviolent Communication (NVC) for the first time often struggle with “but that does not allow me to say what is really going on”. People who feel that way have not yet accepted that good and bad are labels that have to do much more with your own set of values (=needs) and judgments than with what is happening around you. Remember that in a mindset without right and wrong or good and bad, the only truth you have access to is what you observe (being aware that you might be adding some interpretation even to very tangible observations) and what impact something has on you. However, actions do not have impact on you directly, only your needs have. (Read more about feedback beyond right and wrong.)

You do not have access to information of why people are doing what they are doing. In that way, feedback about how you are being impacted, without assigning other people’s action any meaning or interpretation, is the only truth you have access to. Going back to “I want to be able to say what is really going on”: we agree. What is really going on is that your feelings point to needs of yours as met or unmet, not that other people are ill-intentioned. In that way, you are encouraged to talk about what is really going on, and learning about NVC will actually enable you to use a magnifying glass on what is true for ourselves and to share all of that. (Read more about feedback to people, and NVC.)

Since intentional feedback is so important for learning, it is a good idea to implement times when we pay attention to feedback. There are three easy ways to express feedback:

  • Meeting evaluations
  • Feedback form
  • Performance reviews

In the following sections, we will show how to use those moments to learn and improve.

Meeting evaluations

After the content part of every meeting, we evaluate our meeting in a round. Everyone says how the meeting worked for them. If you look at it from a needs/feelings perspective, they are sharing how well the meeting (a strategy to do work together) met their needs. Did the meeting meet your need for productivity? For connection? Did it give you clarity or maybe companionship. Or maybe you created a policy that contributes to your need for safety or harmony. This is a good moment to share those. You can also share feelings, for instance “I am happy about how the meeting went”, or “I was anxious before the meeting wondering whether the agenda was too full, and now I am relieved that we got through all the agenda items.”

A group of people sharing feedback at the end of a meeting.

What do we do with “negative” feedback? We share it as well: if you stay on the level of meets met or unmet, then it will be easier to share those.

Here are some examples of how to express our meeting evaluation with a universal need or a feeling and no blame of labeling, just talking about our very own experience with no expectation that we are accessing any absolute truth.

Which needs were met:

  • “I enjoyed this meeting because to me it seemed effective for our time.” (effectiveness)
  • “I am glad about our decision and the sense of integrity it gives me.”
  • “To me, it seems like there was balance in how much each of us contributed, so there was equality and harmony, and I enjoyed that.”
  • “I want to appreciate Mary for giving me space to express myself during the consent round. I felt heard and understood by everyone.”
  • “This was a fun meeting for me. Stimulating and connected, which works really well for me.”

Which needs were not met:

  • “This meeting was very effective but I would have wished for more connection and space for reflection.”
  • “I noticed some cross-talk in the meeting with people speaking out of turn, and that makes it hard for me to be at ease. I like the sense of equality that comes with rounds.”
  • “The meeting did not work for me at all. I am curious to hear how other people experienced the meeting but I know that I was sitting with a lot of confusion because I was not really sure what we were doing.”
  • “It is hard for me to be around what I perceive as hostility during the meeting.”

Feedback forms

A feedback form is a form that provides a frame for giving feedback. Every organization can agree on additional ways to give (and receive) feedback. If it is already an agreed-upon strategy, it will be easier to do it when you want to actually do it. 

Sociocracy For All's feedback form.

For every piece of feedback outside of meetings, we have to hear whether the person is open to hearing our feedback. If they are not open to it, it still makes sense to write one and not to share it with the other person. In that case, the inner peace and clarity that comes with expressing our unmet needs will be achieved by filling out the feedback form only. It is still worth it, and your clarity will have a positive effect on your interaction with the other person even though they have never seen your feedback.  Here is a real live example of what that could sound like. Note how positive and connecting this email is, and it leaves the other person maximal choice for their actions, while taking responsibility for their own actions.

We’ve included an example of what a feedback form could look like. Your organization might want to design their own — or use ours (from Many Voices One Song).

It is a good idea to put the pointers about what to keep in mind for filling out a feedback form right on the form. Remember that everyone who fills out a feedback form will be in a triggered state in some way, so making it as easy as possible for them to act in an effective, constructive manner is key here.

It might be a good idea to use a feedback form for the next small incident so that you can reduce any anxiety around using it. Or use it for something completely positive. Giving feedback is like a muscle that can be trained. It takes practice! 

Giving feedback is like a muscle that can be trained. It takes practice!

Performance reviews

Performance reviews are a useful way of receiving feedback from the people who know you best in your role in your organization – your coworkers. The person whose performance is reviewed is called the focus person. Imagine you would want to harvest the feedback from the people you work with, which would make you the focus person. How do you go about it?

You can do a performance review in your circle if you are only part of one circle. The performance review can also be done by group of members who don’t usually form a circle. The idea is that every level connected to the focus person is represented while keeping the group to a workable group size.

The focus person

  • determines the members of the performance review
  • sets a date and time for the performance review
  • appoints a facilitator
  • gives the members of the performance review access to relevant documents.

The content part of the meeting consists of three parts.

First, the group does a round on what the focus person has achieved in the areas of content, process and interpersonal interaction. Without any expectation of completeness, here are some possible statements that would include effective feedback in that round, both by the point person and by the other participants of the performance review. Good feedback in a performance review includes general assessments (while making crystal clear that they are no absolute truth) and specific examples for illustration. Describe the impact the point person’s actions and way of being has on you.

Many Voices One Song

Many Voices One Song is the manual for sociocracy – a comprehensive manual covering all topics relevant to sociocracy in organizations.

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  • “I enjoy your leadership style. I experience you as reliable, for instance when it got forgotten to call the electrician and you noticed that on time and were able to intervene successfully.”
  • “I appreciate your voice in the circle. What you say always seems to add to the discussion. I very much admire how you always pass when you do not have anything new or relevant to say. To me, that just makes your voice more valuable because you seem to choose wisely what needs to be said when without taking yourself too seriously.”
  • “I think your energy is great. Your attitude is positive and genuine, you seem to give this circle a sense of ‘we can do this’. I loved when you pulled out that diagram a few meetings back that showed all the ways of dealing with an objection. What I noticed was how important it was for the circle, and certainly for me, to be aware that we have options. You really moved the circle forward there in my view.”
  • “I love how you seem to be the calm center of the circle. Even when people are stuck or excited and want to do everything at the same time, you keep calm, and in my opinion that contributes so much to the group because you’re a needed counterpart to us. It also shows in your writing minutes, they are always correct and thorough and organized. That supports us all in doing our work.”
A groud of people sharing feedback to a role-holder during a performance review.

In the next round, people are going to share what they would like to see improved. Everyone speaking should remember that, in our culture, this can be hard to hear because in everyone’s past, ideas for improvement have been expressed using blame. To counteract, make an effort to be kind, loving and self-responsible – without compromising on what is true for you.

It is a good idea to make a request of the focus person during a performance review. A request is different from a demand in that the other person can say no. (And if they say no, it is because they are saying yes to another need of theirs.) A request has to be doable and specific. The chances of the other person saying yes to a request are higher when you reveal your own heart before you make the request. 

  • Share the need of yours that is not met or that you are trying to meet.
  • Express how the other person could contribute to your needs being met. The other person is free to say yes or no.

Below are some examples of what is traditionally called “negative feedback” (which, in this case, is not really negative feedback but expressing someone’s need not getting met sufficiently).

  • “I have a hard time staying engaged during meetings in general, and it helps me when a meeting is structured so I know what’s going on. I would love for you to support me in that by saying more often, what the frame is for a round and where we are in the process. Maybe we could put a poster up of the different steps, and then you and we could refer to it? That is my request of you because it would help me be more relaxed in meetings.”
  • “I appreciate that you are carrying so much of the load when it comes to our finances. I would like to express some concern because we don’t seem to have any redundancy, which also means no one can help you, and I would like to have some basic understanding of how our coop is doing financially to give me some peace of mind. I have trust but any role should have some redundancy. I would like for someone to learn from you so it does not always have to be you doing our finances.”
  • “I have something to say that might be a little hard to hear because it is clearly judgmental from my part. I am aware that this is probably just a story that is going on in my head, but it impacts the way we work together. It is important to me to feel comfortable in all our meetings, and I am currently not comfortable when we talk about IT tools. I am often picking up on some impatience, and in me, it sounds like all the IT was easy to understand while I am really struggling. Just taking care of myself for a second I would want to know that I am seen for my intentions which are to be productive and to be doing my best to learn the new tools. It is just something that seems to not flow as easily. I am actually curious how my judgment lands on you that, when it comes to that topic, you get annoyed and brief. I guess I already said my part: I am doing my best, and I’d like to people to know that. If I am making up the part that you are annoyed with us and don’t think we’re trying hard enough, I’d like for you to share that so we can talk about it and are not stuck in projecting things about each other. If you do not hold any judgments there, then my request would be for you to be a bit more gentle with me because I get anxious when I do not feel competent, and I would sense judgment even where there is none, and this is hard for me and it is really impacting how I participate in our work here.”
  • “I have to say there is something that is not working for me. I often come in for my shift after yours and find food on the counter that belongs into the fridge. I am worried about safety here and I am sure that is something we can all get behind. I’d love to hear your observations and what comes up for you hearing this.”

(Read this article about performance reviews with more examples.)

Closing remarks and other resources

Be the change!

I am guessing that for some of the example phrases and tools we presented, you thought to yourself, “yeah, that would be nice. But no one ever does that”.

Maybe you are lucky to be around role models, at least some, of people who have done their work and have more practice in giving effective feedback. Having a role model goes a long way!

In my experience, feedback is scary at first but gets much easier over time. Start wherever you can, no matter how small. Then build from there.

If others aren’t willing to join you, you can simply start with yourself and schedule a performance review for yourself. That way, people can practice by giving you feedback – hoping they will see the value and want their own!


One response to “Intentional feedback in organizations”

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    Jane Crothers

    Under performance reviews, the first part of the content of the meeting refers to the focus person, and then refers to the point person without explanation of who is the point person. I’m just assuming that the point person is the focus person.

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